In life as we grow into young adults we begin to experience love. As we experience love, we come to a realization that sometimes we can be blinded by the type of relationship that we are in vs. the type of relationship we need to be in. The 5 ways to tell if it’s true love gives an explanation for those that need to figure out if they are in an ideal relationship or a serious relationship.
As I fell into a relationship, these 5 ways allowed me to determine that I’m in a serious relationship with Bailey.
#1 YOU DON’T NOTICE OTHERS
In a relationship, you should be just for your significant other. As a girlfriend, I have noticed that others do not attract my attention. I feel as though Bailey is the most perfect thing in the world and that I don’t need to notice others, because he is who I want. If you notice others while being in a relationship, you are in the wrong one.
#2 THEY SHOULDN’T WANT TO CHANGE YOU & YOU DON’T CHANGE THEM
Being in a relationship, you should want the best for your significant other. Being in a relationship means you sacrifice things for your boyfriend/girlfriend to become a better version of who they already are. Their should be no need to change who they are. You should love your significant other just the way they are. I know in my personal opinion, I would never change anything about Bailey, because he is an amazing person.
#3 HAPPINESS ALWAYS OUTWEIGHS THE ARGUMENTS
Will your relationship have arguments? Yes of course you are going to have arguments. Every relationship there is going to be a time when an argument will occur; however, the happiness that occurs in the relationship will always overpower the struggles suffered in an argument if you are in the right relationship.
#4 YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING TO MAKE THEM SMILE
In my personal relationship, I would do anything to see my boyfriend smile. The fact that I would put his happiness before mine just allows me to understand the importance of a true relationship. The want to see him smile allows our relationship to be a great thing. If you don’t want to put a smile on your significant others face then you are definitely in the wrong relationship.
#5 YOU GO TO THEM FOR EVERYTHING
As my relationship has progressed, I have become not only his girlfriend but his best friend as well. It is such an amazing feeling to be able to have someone to tell everything to as well as to be able to be there for someone else. A relationship should be a thing in which allows you to have another person to lean on when you need them. You should be able to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend anything. Openness is always a good thing for a relationship.
These 5 way to tell if couples are in love I hope will help in times along their relationship. A relationship is not always a bad thing no matter which way you perceive it. A relationship can be a very enjoyable thing.
Once I met the right person (Bailey), I was able to truly understand what true love is like.
I just wanna say thank you Bailey for allowing me to understand what true love is like and putting my feelings above yours. I promise to always do the same. I love you.